(Case Study) The Relationship Challenger Sabotage

Case Study: The Relationship Challenger

Scenario: Sarah desires a deeper, more meaningful relationship with her partner. Consciously, she engages in activities and conversations that promote intimacy and connection. However, she repeatedly finds herself picking fights and creating distance.

Subconscious Belief: Sarah grew up in an environment where she felt unloved and unworthy. This led her to develop a deep-seated belief that she is not lovable.

Manifestation of Self-Sabotage:

1. Finding Fault: Sarah frequently finds minor faults with her partner and blows them out of proportion.

2. Pushing Away: She creates emotional distance by being overly critical or withdrawn, fearing that if her partner gets too close, he will eventually see her as unlovable.

3. Testing Boundaries: Sarah unconsciously tests her partner's patience and commitment, leading to unnecessary conflicts.

Key Insight: "Subconscious fear or negativity in relation to a conscious goal will alter your behaviour and therefore your results."

It's important to note that this sabotage will be outside of your awareness; you won't see it happening.

Understanding the Conflict: The subconscious mind is a powerful force that drives your behaviour without you even realising it. Recognising patterns of self-sabotaging behaviours and understanding that these patterns are driven by underlying subconscious beliefs is key. When subconscious fears or negative beliefs conflict with your conscious goals, it leads to self-sabotaging behaviours.

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